Yes you heard it right… Mommy M is now married to Daddy C! It has been a hectic couple of weeks but the wedding jitters are all gone and the wedding stress has all gone away. All of the family who flew in have recently departed our home and Daddy C and I are slowly getting back into the swing of things. Not only was the wedding a HUGE success, I am also the happiest bride/wife on the planet!
I could never imagine how empowering marriage could be until the day after my wedding day. It was strange to feel such strength and adoration at the same time. I want to try and explain this feeling because for all of those who do not believe in marriage – you are simply missing out on a huge, life changing moment. I never really thought much of marriage until it actually happened. I knew I always believed in marriage and that I only want to be married once and now that it has actually happened, I know why.
I guess the feelings I had after we said our I dos, was that of being proud, accomplishment, responsibility, and somewhat of an eternal love. It is so hard to say this to the world as everyone has their own opinion and belief, but I truly believe that if you have found the right person, the act of marriage can accelerate your life to something much more enlightening.
For someone who had not felt their true calling in life quite yet, I now feel closer to that calling than I ever have before. I understand my role as a mother and as a wife, but for some reason being a Mrs. has really pushed me to be better, make better decisions, and do more! Being a wife is a big responsibility and the more I think about it, the more empowered I feel, and the more I want to succeed.
I wish my feelings upon every woman in love… to be lucky enough to have found someone to share your life with is a true accomplishment on its own. I believe there is someone out there for every single human being and it is just a matter of time until you find that person. On that note however, I also believe some people are often too preoccupied with themselves to even take notice of those around them who care for them. It is as much our responsibility as it is the next persons – we need to be equal in our actions and our desires and the more we try at love, the better chance we have at true love.
I follow a simple rule in life and that is to always ask. Asking will give you an answer to whatever it is you want. Whether it be in business, or in love, what is the worst thing the other person can say? No? At least you asked. You can learn so much and do so much more without wasting time if you just follow this one rule.
Daddy C asked me to be his wife. I said yes. Imagine if he didn’t – would I ever get to experience this type of feeling?
Day after day I am getting stronger, wiser, and more in love. Marriage is great and the vest thing ever as long as you know that you are 50% responsible for the rest if your life. If something goes wrong you are responsible to try and fix it, better yet do the right things and you hopefully wont have any problems to begin with.
Well, as I re read my post, it looks like my happiness really is showing. I just cant express my happiness and honour I feel. ♡ I wonder if any one else has felt this way from their marriage??
~ one love, my love. May 17, 2014